Opinions/help with my stepson

[archeryaz]

Lots of good information on this topic. Here is my two cents. I have two son's of my own. One of my son's (the oldest) is by definition a "stepson". I have been privileged to have him in my life since he was a year old, he is now 15. He is as hardcore a hunter as anyone can be, and has been hunting with me since the age of 3. My youngest, did not have any interest in hunting, and was dead set against doing it. I backed off. My wife almost fell over and told me she was surprised at my calmness, and thought I would have taken this much harder. I was a little let down that one of my son's did not have the desire, but I respected what he had to say. About a year later, my youngest (non-hunter) asked if we were going to a coyote hunt, my oldest and I attend every year. I reminded him of what he had told me. He told me he was curious, and wanted to give it a try. Plans were made, and the coyote hunt in 40+ mph winds was upon us. 20 stands later and one missed coyote, and I thought for sure this would be the end of his hunting career. Again I was shocked when he told me how much fun he had and how he could not wait to go again. I'm sure the chocolate milk and candy bar's during the day helped, but I could see he was very serious. Now, I cannot get out of the house without him if he knows were are going hunting or fishing. So for once in my career as being a dad, I got one right. My point is this, you are doing all you can do. Provide the opportunity, and see where it go's from there. Best wishes, and best of luck.