Mocha1545 Report post Posted September 17, 2014 God blessed me with a boy and then a girl. I was scared to death when I learned we were going to have a daughter. Never had sisters and didn't have a clue about them. And still have the fear she will meet a boy like I was in high school or WORSE! My father gave me some good advice saying to never break her spirit. I have lived by that and sometimes almost died by that. My Baby Girl is 18 now. She was into soccer, softball and then became a girly girl with singing, dancing and acting. She would never go hunting because she loves animals. She does love to fish and will tolerate camping to get to the fishing. Cherish every moment because when you blink they will be grown. I Love both my kids with all of my heart and soul and would never change a thing. She will always have me wrapped around her little finger! Everything written on this post is great advice. Enjoy the blessings of your children. Congrats! PS: Start teaching her early. Who's you favorite? DADDY! What's daddy do? Works like a dog! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lancetkenyon Report post Posted September 17, 2014 Here is my baby girl (23) over Labor Day weekend... Here is my other baby girl (12) scouting with me for her elk hunt coming up this November... 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naturegirl Report post Posted September 17, 2014 You will be a great dad My biggest advice is to include her in your adventures. I look back at my youth and for the first 6 years I was exposed to the boy world because all my friends were boys, then we moved here and I got stuck with girl friends (lol), and it took me another 30+ years to make it back. I believe if my exposure was there in the beginning, it would've been my lifestyle all along. With that being said, just because you are a hunter does not mean she will be, but if you teach her to love the outdoors, there is a whole other world that goes along with it. Just because we are females, we can do most anything you guys can especially in the field. Teach her self-confidence, how to take care of herself, and that carries over into all aspects of her life. It also will help because your wife also enjoys the outdoors. My youngest was hunting with me as she grew inside me, then she was in a pack, and now on foot. She still isn't fond of killing, but just the other day she did say "Mom, next time you go hunting I want to go with you." That works for me! I try my best to keep things at her level when she's with me. I took her kayaking the other night with her Cinderella pole. No fish were caught, but she was very good at casting Of course we played on the beach before and after. If I took her and just kayaked, she'd be bored to death so I mix it up for both of us. Here's my girl. And remember this can come on at anytime. 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
6ANut Report post Posted September 17, 2014 God blessed me with a boy and then a girl. I was scared to death when I learned we were going to have a daughter. Never had sisters and didn't have a clue about them. And still have the fear she will meet a boy like I was in high school or WORSE! This is exactly my thought. I want to thank you all so much for your kind words, I have taken much of this to heart. There is no exact book on parenting but helpful hints definately will help. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stanley Report post Posted September 17, 2014 That pic looks familiar to me, Lance! Looks just like my daughter's deer hunt from a couple of years ago! Good father/daughter time! 6ANut, good luck in your journey! There is NOTHING like it!!!! (PS: Sorry to hi-jack your thread. ) S. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
6ANut Report post Posted September 17, 2014 No Hi jacking here, gets me excited seeing all the young huntress'es out in the field. Waiting for the day that it will be my turn to take those pics of my daughter. Christina love the pics of your little one especially the one holding a monster cow paddy. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naturegirl Report post Posted September 17, 2014 No Hi jacking here, gets me excited seeing all the young huntress'es out in the field. Waiting for the day that it will be my turn to take those pics of my daughter. Christina love the pics of your little one especially the one holding a monster cow paddy. Just making it fun is what it's about! Kids always seem find their own toys. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IA Born Report post Posted September 17, 2014 Reading through all of the rest of the responses has been great. With regards to not wanting her to meet a boy like you were or worse: just show her the man you are now and she will follow your lead. I remember when my daughter was 4 and said she wanted to marry me and then got mad at her mom because we were all ready married. Like I said earlier (and others), raising a daughter has made me a better man. I try every single day to be the kind of man I won't have to threaten when she is ready to settle down. Just the other night she and I had it out pretty bad and when the dust finally settled, I sat down with her, heartbroken because I yelled so much, and told her your words: "There is no book on how to be a good parent and there is no book on how to be a good kid. We're both figuring this out as we go. We're both going to make mistakes, but we learn from our mistakes and try to be better people, better kids, and better parents every time." I love the "I'm never letting go!" hugs from my daughter, especially after those! I'm taking her on her first elk hunt next Friday and her first deer hunt two weeks after that. You want pics of girls doing what we do? My pleasure! Here are a few from over the years, including the first time she joined me on an archery deer "hunt" when she was 5. We spent most of that hike (about a mile in) holding hands and talking. No deer or elk seen, but it is still one of my favorite memories! 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cramerhunts Report post Posted September 17, 2014 Congratulations on the new addition. As a father of two girls I can relate to your feelings. I love and Cherish both of my daughters to the point that I could never imagine my life without them. You have received some great advice already so I won't add much but one thing I can tell you is that no matter what she decides to like remember that God already has a plan and knows what is best for her and all you can do is support her and help guide her. One of my daughters took to hunting unlike anyone I have seen, my other daughter shows no interest in it at all (as long as sis brings home the meat). Obviously quality time comes very easy and is quite plentiful for my huntress but I have made it a point to give my non hunter the same quality time as she deserves it just as much. Enjoy every minute of the journey as it really does go fast! 6 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
6ANut Report post Posted October 20, 2014 If the little huntress doesn't come and say hi to her new world before Wednesday, Mama will be induced on Thrusday. So excited. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kazpilot25 Report post Posted October 20, 2014 If the little huntress doesn't come and say hi to her new world before Wednesday, Mama will be induced on Thrusday. So excited. That's so exciting. I'll keep your family in our prayers. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
POB Report post Posted October 21, 2014 Many times teenage girls look for boys that remind them of their fathers, so be the type of man you want your daughter to marry. You are the male example that she will look for. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tjhunt2 Report post Posted October 21, 2014 I just got done reading every post and enjoyed looking at all the pictures. You all are blessed parents. Brian, you and momma will be in my thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see our new little cwt member. TJ 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
naturegirl Report post Posted October 21, 2014 I've been wondering if your little bundle of joy has made her arrival yet. I'm sure you will let us know and post adorable baby pictures 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mocha1545 Report post Posted October 21, 2014 All of you are in my prayers today. Hoping for a healthy, happy Baby girl and that Momma comes through alright. Take care of your girls and let us know how they are doing. Post Pics!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
